uOqiuh od we;s jQ m%Yakhlska u;= jQ wukqIH fodaIh

ud tlal tl;= fjkafk 

mrK ñksyj

u;la lr lro@

idudkH fm< úNd.h hï m%udKhlg iu;a jqjo ;jÿrg;a wOHdmk lghq;= lsÍfï woyi w;ayer oeuQ ldxpkd ksjfia /|S ujf.a jevlghq;=j,g iyh jkakg jQjdh’ Wiia wOHdmkhla fkd,enqj;a ldxpkdg f.or fodf¾ yeu jevlau fyd|ska lsÍfï yelshdj ;sìKs’ wehg frdydka yuqjQfha fï ld,fhaoSh’ Tjqka fofokd w;r we;s jQ fm%au iïnkaOhg frdydkaf.a md¾Yajfhka iDcq úfrdaOhla t,a, ù ;sìKs’ thg fya;=j ldxpkd /lshdjl=;a ke;s Wiia wOHdmkhl=;a ke;s ;reKshl ùuh’ frdydkag oeä wdorhla oelajQj;a frdydkaf.a udmsh úfrdaOh yuqfõ frdydkaf.ka fjkaùug ldxpkdg isÿúh’

tfy;a tu wdorh iodld,sl u;lhla f,i wef.a yojf;a ;ekam;a úKs’ ld,h fkdoekSu .;j .sfhah’ ldxpkdf.a jeäysáhka tlaj wehg ukd,hl= fidhd ;sìKs’ Tyq iq¿ õ‍hdmdßlfhls’ úfYaI wdl¾IKhla Tyq ;=< fkd;snqK;a ujqmshkaf.a lSug wjk;j ldxpkd Tyq yd újdyhg tlÕ jQjdh’ ta wkqj udi lsysmhlska fï újdyh isÿlsÍug ;Skaÿ úh’ úfÊisß flfrys lsisÿ wdl¾IKhla bkamiqj fyda ldxpkd ;=< we;s fkdjQfha lsisfia;au m%sh Wmojk yeisÍï rgdjla Tyq ;=< fkd;snQ ksid h’ i;s follg muK j;djla Tyq weh olskakg meñKsh o th jeäysáhka bosßfha isÿl< idudkH l;dnylg iSud úh’ 

wvq;rñka Tyq meh fol ;=klaj;a wef.a ksjfia /|S isáfhao ke;’ újdyhg osk <xfjñka ;sìKs’ lsisÿ wdldrhlska ;udg udkislj fyda iómj fkdisá úfÊisß iu. mjq,a Ôú;hla .;lrkafka flfia o hkak ldxpkdg ;snQ f,dl=u .eg¨j úh’ wdorh ms<sn|j tlu jpkhla j;a l;d ny lr ke;s lsisÿ f,ka.;= ne|Sula uff;la we;slr .kakg iu;a fkdjQ úfÊisß .ek l,amkd lrk úg ldxpkdg frdydkaf.a w.h jeä jeäfhka oefkkakg mgka .;af;a h’ ish ux., oskh ojiska oji <x jk úg ta yd iudkj ldxpkdf.a isf;a ;snQ ìh o by< k.skakg úh’ kuq;a Tyq yd újdy ùu ñi bka u.yer hdfï yelshdjla ldxpkdg ;snqfKa ke;’

újdy ù uOqiuh .;lsÍug .sh wjia:dfõ ldxpkd jrla úfÊisßg frdydka hehs weu;=fõ lsisfia;au ys;du;d fkdfõ’ wef.a há isf;a frdydka ms<sn| ;ekam;a ù ;snQ wdorh ksidu wef.a uqúka tf,i bfíu msgjkakg we;’ kuq;a wef.a uqúka fjk;a msßñhl=f.a kula msgùu ksid úfÊisß fndfyda fihska l,n, úh’ ta ljqoehs úfÊisß os.ska os.gu wikakg jQ miq Tyqg ish¨ i;Hh mejeiQ ldxpkd Tyqf.ka iudj o wheo isáhdh’

"ud tlal tl;= fjkafk mrK ñksyj u;la lr lro?"

úfÊisß weiQúg ldxpkdg oekqfKa lshd.kakg neß ;rfï fõokdjls’ flfia fyda m%Yakh ÿros. fkdf.dia iu:hlg m;a jQ kuqÿ úfÊisß ksrka;rfhka ldxpkdj iellrkakg fm<UqfKah’

wehg ksjiska msg lsisu ;ekl Tyq ;ksj hkakg bv ÿkafka ke;’ wvqu ;rfï wef.a foudmshka n,kakgj;a wehg hd yels jQfha Tyq iu. muKs’ wy, my< ;snQ lvhlgj;a yosiaishlg fyda hdug ldxpkdg wjir fkd;sìKs’ ksjfia Whk msysk foa mjd ;SrKh lf<a úfÊisßh' weh remjdysksh kerôh hq;af;a Tyq isák fj,djg muKs’ 

tho Tyq úiska f;dard fírd fok fg,s kdgH iy fjk;a jevigyka lsysmhls’ fufia úfÊisßf.a oeä md,khlg wjk;j Ôj;aùug ldxpkdg isÿj ;snqKs’ kuq;a weh Tyqg tfrysj jpkhlska fyda m%;spdr fkdoelajQfha .egqï we;súh yels ksidh’ yer;a ;udf.a uqúka uOqiuh oskfhaoS frdydkaf.a ku bfíu msgùu ksid weh ;=< ;ud úYd, jrola l< njg yeÕSulao ;sìKs’ tfia jqjo weh fï oeä ks;s Í;s ksid úYd, udkisl mSvdjlg m;aj isáhdh’

fï w;r ysáyeáfha ldxpkdf.a uj wikSm ù frday,a .; lr ;sìKs’ 

uj n,kakg hdhq;= nj úfÊisßg lsõj;a tosk Tyq fjf<|i,g w;HjYH nvq /f.k taug msgfldgqjg taug kshñ;j ;snQ ksid wef.a .uk Tyq l,aoeóh’ ñka wef.a is; n,j;a fia ßosks’ miqod jk ;=re uj fkdn,d ys|skakg wiSre nj;a yeÕ=Kq ksid úfÊisß ksjiska msgj .sh miq ldxpkd osjd l, ;ksju frday,g .shdh’ weh frday‍f,a isg f.or tkakg;a fmru úfÊisß fuh oekf.k ;sìKs’ Tyq wehg;a l,ska f.org meñK weh tk f;la n,d isáfhah’ ksjig mh ;nk úgu ldxpkd ÿgqfõ ieñhdf.a rl=iq uqyqKh’ 

ksoyig lreKq úuikakgj;a m%udo fkdjQ úfÊisß wehg myrj,a lsysmhla .eiqfõ weh kkak;a;df¾ .sh tlshl f,i i,lñks’ tu wkfmalaIs; isÿùfuka miq ldxpkdg ;jÿrg;a úfÊisß yd Ôj;aùu tmd úh . lsisÿ l;d nyla ke;sj tod oji .;l< weh miqod Wfoa ieñhd ksjiska msgj .sh miq uyu.g neiaidh’ fldfya hd hq;= oehs wruqKla ldxpkdg fkd;sìKs’ weh nihl ke. msgfldgqjg meñK isáhdh’ bkamiq weh ke. ;snqfKa wkqrdOmqr nia r:hlgh’ meh lsysmhl .uklska miq wkqrdOmqrfhka nei .;a;o t;ekska tydg fldfyda hkafka oehs wruqKla ldxpkdg ;snqfKa ke;’

fï w;r ijia hdufha ksjig meñKs úfÊisß ldxpkd fmfkkakg ke;s nj oel wehg l;d lf<ah’ kuq;a lsisÿ ydjla yQjla ke;’ l,n,ù wjg ksfjiaj, mjd fiõj;a lsisjl=o ldxpkdj oel fkd;sìKs’ bkamiq ldxpkdf.a foudmshkaf.a ksjfia ióm;u kEoEhkaf.a ksfjiaj, mjd úfÊisß ldxpkd ms<sn|j fidhd ne¨fõ ysi .sks .;a mßoafoks’ wka;sfï úfÊisß fmd,Sishgf.dia meñKs,a,la lf<ah’ ldxpkd ms<sn| lsisÿ wdrxÑhla ke;sj tu oji .;j .sfhah’ oeka ldxpkdf.a foudmshkag úfÊisß .ek ielh’ 

Tyq iu. weh f.jQfha lsisÿ wdldrhlskaj;a ;Dma;su;a Ôú;hla fkdjk nj wef.a foudmsfhda oek isáhy’ miq oskfha oS ldxpkd .ek wdrxÑhla ,eìKs’ ta weh wkqrdOmqrhg wdikak m%foaYhl kEoE ksjil ys|skd njhs’ jydu ish¨ fokd msg;aù tys .shy’ ldxpkdf.a ú,dih ÿgq úfÊisß fukau wef.a ujqmsfhdao uy;a ìhg m;a jQy’ weh lsisjl= iu. l;d lf<a ke;’ ta ksjfia {d;Ska mejeiqfõ o wik foalg lskï fyda ms<s;=rla fokq ñi ldxpkdf.a lsisÿ l;dnyla ke;s njhs’ we;eï úg wef.ka úuik m%Yakj,g ms<s;=re wehj;a oek isáfha ke;’

"fldfyduo wkqrdOmqf¾g wdfõ?" úfÊisß fukau ujqmshka o úuiqj;a ;=IaksïN+;j uo fj,djla n,d isá ldxpkd’ okafk kE’ hehs f;d,a u;=,dh’

";kshu fufy fydhka wdfj fldfyduo?" Tjqyq h<s úuiQy’

"u;l k ....." ldxpkd lSfõ ;o kskaol ys| msìÿKdla n÷ iajNdjhlsks’

ta {d;s ksji ms<sn|j wef.a u;lfha ;sì flfia fyda tys meñKsh;a tu ksjfia isák we;euqka ms<sn| u;lhla ldxpkdg ;snqfKa ke;’ fmroS b;d fyd|ska l;dny l< wh foi mjd ldxpkd kd÷kkakshl fia n,d isáhdh’

"fï <uhg fudlla yß wukqiai fodaihla’ u<.sh m%dKldrfhlaf. ne,aula ;uhs fï úosyg tkafk’ fï ojia fofla fï <uhf. yeisÍfukau wmg tal f;areKd’ tu {d;s ksjfia jeäysáfhda woyia olajñka lshd isáhy’ ldxpkdj wef.a foudmsfhda ksjig le|jd f.k meñKsfha wef.a wukqiai fodaIh bj;a lsÍu i|yd Ydka;sl¾uhla lsÍfï wfmalaIdfjks’ úfÊisßo ìh ù isáfhah’ weh úfÊisß foi ne¨fõo kd÷kkafkl= foi n,k kshdfhks’ kï oerE lÜgähl= ,jd ireidfrg f;dú,hla lrkakg úfÊisß lghq;= fhÿfõ ;u ìß|g fï isoaO jQ wlr;eínhg ;ud;a j.lsj hq;=hs hk jroldÍ yeÕSula Tyqf.a is; ;=< meje;s ksidh’ kuq;a th .Õg lemQ bks n÷ úh’ 

f;dú,fhka miqj;a ldxpkd fkdld fkdì n,d.;a w; n,d f.k isáfha mshú f,dj ms<sn| jeä oekSula ke;s whqßks’ lrkakg fohla ke;su ;ek ldxpkdf.a foudmsfhda weh ufkda ffjoHjrhl= fj; tlalrf.k .shy’ ldxpkdg isÿù ;snqfKa l=ulao@ wef.a mjq,a Ôú;h wdrïNfha isgu .eg¨ iy.; úh’ ieñhd iu. .egqï we;s jk úg wef.a is;g jeäfhka oekqfKa ;u m<uq wdorhhs’ fï mSvdjka w;r os.ska os.g Ôj;a jkakg isÿjQjd ñi ldxpkdf.a yeÕSï wjfndaO lr.ekSfï lsisÿ jqjukdjla wef.a ieñhdg fkd;sìKs’ 

fï ksid wjidkfha weh úYdo frda.hg (Depression) ,laj isáhdh’ tu udkisl wdndOh W.% ;;a;ajhg m;ajQfha ish frda.S uj n,kakg hdfï jrog ieñhdf.ka myr lEug isÿjQ úgh’ bkamiq weh ksjiska m,d .shdh’ fufia m,d hdfïoS flkl= wruqKla ke;sj hdug;a mq¿jk’ tfiau ;ud hk mßirh ms<sn| wjfndaOfhka hdugo mq¿jk’

kuq;a miqj ;ud meñKsfha flfiao hkak .ek ish¨u oE wu;l úh yelsh’ ldxpkdg;a ta lsisjla u;lfha fkd;sìKs’ th udkisl ú>gk ;;a;ajhla ksid isÿjk wu;l ùuls’ fuh ufkda ffjoH úoHdfõ Dissociative Amnesiaf,i y÷kajhs’ fï frda. ;;a;ajh meh lsysmhl isg osk lsysmhla olajd jqjo ;sìh yelsh’ fuysoS frda.shd idudkH flkl= f,i isáh yelsh’ kuq;a ;ud l< lS oE lsisjla u;lfha /f|kafka ke;’ fuh ;djld,sl ;;a;ajhls’ 

ta wkqj miqj frda.shd m%lD;s ;;a;ajhg meñfKkq we;’ kuq;a fuysoS frda.shdg m%;sldr lrk w;f¾u fï ;;a;ajhg m;ajkakg n,mE fya;=j fidhd n,d ta fya;=jo bj;a l< hq;=h’ ldxpkd ksrka;rfhka mSvdjg m;a jQfha ieñhdf.a isf;a weh ms<sn|j meje;s ielh ksidh’ ta wkqj tu ielh bj;alsÍu i|yd ieñhdgo ufkda ffjoH m%;sldr l< hq;=h’ tfia fkdjqjfyd;a ldxpkdg iaÒr iqjhla ,eìu wiSre fjhs’